self pity meaning in English

自哀自怜
自怜

You know what ? don ' t even try and give me that self pity thing , okay
不要想用这个让我怜悯你
And i prayed for wisdom and i said to her , " carol , the first thing i want to say to you is this , " she listened , " watch out for self pity .
我求神给我智慧，我对她说：嘉露，我想对你说的第一件事就是。她听著，提防自怜！
With the storyline ' s development , this awareness becomes more and more intensive , mainly including awareness of life , awareness of love , awareness of independence , awareness of self pity
她的诗词先后表现出其自我生命意识、自我情爱意识、自我独立意识及自我爱怜意识等不同层面，且随着故事情节的展开愈演愈烈，体现着一种趋强性。